Archive for July, 2009

Recommended Watch

The ghost of girlfriends past is a must watch movie I will recommend to any insecure, H type girls and boys out there. It is not a ghost story, it’s a chickflick but full with smart and brilliant messages.

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I will share with you 2.

First, when you love someone, get closer. Not run away from it and then try to justify your action.

Second, the path for forgiveness is open for people who repent. It is always open, we just need to put our ego aside.

That’s all folks!

Sabri

A Few Days of Challenges

Well, the last time I feel like I was challenged to the max was a very long time ago. I can’t remember exactly when actually (except for the last year October’s Tragedy which hurt me a bit but not that bad). But for the few last days, to say they are a bit challenging for me might be an understatement.

I went to Ipoh on Sunday expecting to finish all my paperwork the next day. I have applied for leave and replace it properly by working on the Saturday before.

Monday noon, due to my own carelessness, I hit the bumper of a Peugeot car while being stuck in Ipoh traffic jam. Luckily I just finish reading, “Trump Negotiation Style”. Very good timing. I left only RM 100 poorer.

As it is not enough, on the way to Tronoh my car engine dies. Luckily it stall directly in front of a workshop. Another RM 130 gone.

If you read this blog regularly, you know that I hate not getting my way and I will do everything that I can do to overcome challenges that come my way. So instead of waiting for the car to be fixed, I hailed a cab and continue my journey to Tronoh. I also asked F to rent a car for me so that he can send me to Ipoh when I am done with the paperworks required.

Then while in Tronoh I spent 5 hours waiting for two people to appear in their respective office. At last, one show up. It means I have to extend my stay for another day to meet the other person.

Its very frustrating but as I have a fruitful business meeting with F so I thought the worst has passed for me. I decided to stay in a new hotel in Seri Iskandar (I saw the signboard 10 months ago) just to find out it has closed. Not surprisingly.

So I head on to Batu Gajah. I know they have a golf resort there (Clearwater Sactuary Golf Resort), when again my car conveniently dies again in the middle of a deserted road, in total darkness. So, I whipped my handphone out again just to realize I have minimal battery left on the phone. Make a few quick calls to F, no answer. Send him an sms to rent a car again to get me.

While waiting I walked to the resort, luckily its not that far. With help from the guard at the gate, he send me to the clubhouse, where I booked a chalet for the night.

The resort has free wifi. While checking my email that night, I found out about MV huge refunds problem. As it sort of fall under my responsibility I spend a couple of hours thinking about it before went to bed.

The next day its getting better luckily. After sending my car to the workshop (my fault actually that cause the problem), I went to UTP again, still without luck. Then went to Ipoh for a stable Internet connection to be online for the awesomeness meeting.

Went back to UTP, luckily this time the lady luck is on my side.

Get everything signed prim and proper, submit all the documents and I am back in KL.

Top off the day with a long phone conversation with an old friend.

Phewww.

I hope there is no more such days in my life. Forever.

Awesomeness Update

17 July:

I went to Ipoh. (No I did not go earlier as planned). I have completed my clearance form, but there are a few more paper works need to be submitted and red tape busted.

20-24 July:

A super productive week.

23 July:

Fun night. Mindvalley held its “bring your friend so that we can impress & hire” session at one of the coolest rooftop cafe in KL. Met a lot of interesting people.

26 July

Will go back to Ipoh, complete the paperwork and hopefully this time no idiotic pencil pusher stand in my way.

I like to write more but as you can see, life is super hectic right now. But it is fun and challenging. So no sweat. I will write more once I can organize my thought proper.

Ciao!

Beautiful Bali

The Pool Where You Can Relax and Wind Down

Beach View From Bali

Enjoy!

Too Much Relationship Stuff?

I just realised there are too many posts about relationship recently.

This is unhealthy.

I just could not believe how much uneducated our people are about love and relationship.

We don’t talk about this, we are not taught about this, it made a lot of people ignorant. And this ignorant people are abusing not only themselves, but people near them.

This is not good.

But, this I promise myself. No matter how ignorant our people is, I should take a break. Talking about this stuff might take a toll on me.

I won’t post anything about relationship in the next 7 days.

If there is nothing to post about, I will post pictures.

Saya Tak Faham

Sedang saya browse Facebook profile rakan-rakan tadi, saya terjumpa nota berikut dalam aktiviti tagging.

Have You Cheat: Yes
Broken Someone’s Heart: Ada
Your Status Currently: Single

Kawan saya ini baik. Sekali tengok (banyak kali tengok pun) tak akan sangka yang dia ni macam ni.

She might have her own reason.

But I have saw, and met people who did just that without a valid reason.

And I strongly believe AT LEAST 65% people who did the above did without a valid reason. Dan most of the time orang yang buat macam ini adalah orang yang abuse kelebihan yang dianugerahkan.

For people who did not have a valid reason, I hope God reciprocate. Cash di dunia. Berkali-kali sehinggalah diorang betul-betul sedar.

Can Somebody Picked Up Their Phone? Pretty Please?

Two post in one night? WTH.

But I need to document this.

I never ever saw a busy person that does not have time to reply to a simple message for a few days and counting.

Even my business partner who are out of mobile coverage communicate with me a few time per day. Don’t tell me you can’t sneak out a SMS or two during your break all these days..

Urgh…

If I were you, I will change profession. Or change my limiting belief. I will get a life and my priority straight. Whichever is easier.

Before I Sleep

I fiddle around with my trusty iPod touch. My house has wifi network so I can pretty much do almost everything that I want before sleeping.

One of my hobby is exploring Apple Apps Store. Tonight, I saw some personality test that looks credible (unlike Facebook quizzes), so I dowloaded and took one.

The result:

1) You fall in love easily.
2) You need to hear from your loved one everyday.
3) You expect to give 85% and receive 15% in the relationship.

Very true I can say.

Good night! :)

Enjoying Bali

The picture says it all. :)

A Road Trip to Tronoh

Again, the Maxis Broadband that we have in the house are so horribly slow it could not open the add new post section on my blog on the laptop. Hence I am writing this on my trusty itouch.

This Friday I planned to make a quick dash to Tronoh. I need to submit all the paperwork related to my internship and do proper clearance as a 1st step to conclude my life as an undergraduate. That same evening my parents will arrive from Kuantan (hopefully as my dad has just been warded today) and later that night Kak Ana will be back.

That’s mean I need to be back in KL by 6 pm because I need to arrange for accomodation for everyone before they landed. My dad and my sister are the two biggest diva in the family and I need to make sure all their logistical need are addressed to avoid what supposed to be a happy family time become a grouchy one.

I am not excited in the prospect of having to complete all the necessary report in 4 days. But I am thrilled for the roadtrip. It’s been a long time since I drive long distance and KL-Perak is definitely a good journey (similar to Perak-Penang)

KL-Kuantan is tiring and not as enjoyable (there is no Baskin Robbin & KFC at the R&R). Plus I have some unforgetabble sweet memories with these routes. They are very familiar as I have drove on them in all imaginable conditions. On a sunny day, on a rainy day and of course on a sleepy night (literally AND really!)

Most of the time risking my life for a very foolish cause if viewed in retrospect. Driving ALONE at 4 am after driving almost non stop for the whole day? What I am thinking about at that time?

But driving along that route make me feel younger (I am still young now if you don’t notice), so carefree and so happy. I am also very happy right now, but these route has a special sentimental value for me.

It fill a void in me which I have been trying to fill for sometime already.

And for this reason, my heart beat faster while Friday become closer. I am just hoping that all the paperwork are done by that time.

Secrets In Getting Everything That You Want From Life

Somebody tell me (and I believe somebody else tell her that), I always get what I want in life.

I am not too proud of it because it’s bordering “takbur”, but yeah, I silently want to believe so.

First, I like to clarify that I get what I want not because I was born with a silver spoon in mouth or because I have a shit load of money I can do anything I want about it. I got what I want from life because I worked hard to get it and because I let nothing stop me from getting it. Sometimes I am strategic, most of the time I just steamrolled my way.

It help also by having a small list of what you want (I don’t want fancy cars, flashy gadgets etc).

I don’t like being told I can’t do something for whatsoever reason that is beyond my control.

If I really want to do something and was told for whatsoever reason that is beyond my control I can’t, you can bet I will find a way to do it. Sometimes it might cost me a little bit more, most of the time I have to be a little bit more resourceful to find a better way to get around the blocking wall.

Randy Pausch in his final lecture says that the wall is not there to stop you. The wall is there to stop people who are not deserving and people who do not really want what they are after.

I do not give up.

A lot of people give crappy excuse why they can’t and why they don’t deserve something.

I hate people like these. They are not only tormenting themselves but they are also being unfair to others. I don’t care if people like this do harm to themselves, but I am riled up if it affect others which they sure will do.

On a related story. I plan to visit the Angkor Watt temple this August with my housemates. I have even booked the flight ticket and hotel. Two days ago I just realize that the date clash with my convocation ceremony date.

No big deal, I will have to cancel the trip. But deep in my heart, I know I still want to go there, if I can’t go then, I will go now. I don’t want the convocation become the wall that stop me from going to Cambodia. Its very pathetic!

Then I started checking the available dates. My heart want to go this month (because Ramadhan starts in August). But my head says its not a wise choice. My sister is coming home and everyone in my family will come to KL. Effectively we will be having a short vacation in KL. Two vacations in a month sounds too much, what more if I am the one who will be paying for both.

So last night I slept promising myself to follow my head and not my heart.

This morning, my heart acted up. I should not go in July. But I can still go in August, September or next year! So I checked the available date, I found out that early August, there is another irresistible deal for a trip to Siem Reap (angkor watt). I make a quick analysis with my head and my head could not find any credible objection.

I did not give up. A clash on date does not mean I should give up on my plan. When you really want something, doors will somehow open up for you.

So Angkor Watt, I am still coming this August!

Sabri